Chapter 01 / Summary
1. Codependence is a Disease with Five Core Symptoms
We believe that these suffering people are in the grip of a serious underlying disease called codependence (or codependency).
Defining Codependence.Codependence is presented as a serious disease stemming from dysfunctional childhood experiences, impacting both self-relationship and relationships with others. It''s characterized by intense, often overwhelming or absent, emotional reactions and a compulsion to control or please others. This internal turmoil and external behavior sabotage health and relationships.
Five Core Symptoms.The disease is structured around five primary symptoms that manifest as difficulties in key areas of life. These difficulties are often experienced at opposite extremes, lacking moderation.
Beyond Addiction.While initially observed in families of addicts, codependence is recognized as a widespread disease existing independently of chemical dependency. It can even underlie and fuel addictions, meaning recovery from addiction often requires addressing underlying codependence.
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